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                          Effective
                            prevention recognizes that we can guide teenage
                            experimentation, or we can force them to hide it
                            from us, but we can't stop them from trying adult
                            habits. 
                            - Mike Males, Two-Fisted Double Standards, 
                            Youth Today, June 2000, P. 54 
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                            Few sons in a city
                            culture learn to fuse instinctive aggression with
                            the pleasure of hard physical work. 
                            - Robert Bly, THE SIBLING SOCIETY 
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                            Parenting: The process
                            of an adult's cerebral cortex controlling a child's
                            limbic system while teaching the child's cerebral
                            cortex the vital importance of controlling its own
                            limbic system. 
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                            The best acquisition a
                            man can make is the kindness and affection of his
                            own family; command and fear are no longer his
                            weapons. 
                            Montaigne, Essays II, Chapter 8 
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                            A goal of the legal
                            system is to foster self-control by stigmatizing and
                            punishing its absence. 
                            - James Q. Wilson, MORAL JUDGMENT 
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