Bullying about weight is not uncommon. Remuda Ranch Programs for Eating and Anxiety Disorders reports that when children are teased about their weight, they are more reluctant to exercise or engage in physical activity.
"We know that weight bullying happens to a lot of children," said Dena Cabrera, PsyD, psychologist, and director of educational outreach at Remuda Ranch Programs for Eating and Anxiety Disorders. "Bullying can perpetuate the cycle of lack of exercise as well as using food as a source of comfort." Children who are bullied about their weight, especially in their preteen years, are highly susceptible to developing negative self image, and poor body dissatisfaction, which can last into adulthood.
"Bullying is abuse," adds Cabrera. "Many kids feel unsafe in school and unsafe in their own bodies. 'Weightism' is the last form of socially acceptable prejudice. We hear so many negative comments around us and in the media about people's sizes and shapes, and it's often commented on without any sensitivity or regard."
Dr. Cabrera says there's a lot that we can do to stop bullying about weight. Parents play a key role in creating a home environment that fosters healthful eating and physical activity.
Dr. Cabrera's suggestions to parents include:
Recognize the signs of bullying about weight
Create a healthy home environment
Take a "zero tolerance" stand in the home with family members
Teach social and assertive skills
Build resilience and self esteem
Get support from teachers, school administrators, and counselors
Get support from the law
Remuda Ranchoffers inpatient and residential programs for individuals suffering from eating or anxiety disorders. Each patient is treated by a multi-disciplinary team including a psychiatric and a primary care provider, registered dietitian, master's level therapist, psychologist and registered nurses. The professional staff equips each patient with the right tools to live a healthy, productive life. For more information, call 800-445-1900 or visit www.remudaranch.com.