| From Strugglingteens.com Essays October 10-11, 2003 Conference Linda Houghton and her Training Institute for Emotional Growth Education (TIEGE) hosted a two-day conference at Lake Oswego, Oregon on October 10-11, 2003. The history, scope and future of emotional growth education were discussed to determine: what it is, what it is not, and how it can be applied when working with teens who are struggling.
Houghton explained it is very difficult to define or measure emotional growth. It is the opposite of the scientific approach that requires precise measurements and definitions, which exist in therapeutic institutions. This is because, according to Houghton, emotional growth education works with the whole child and there are aspects of human beings, such as the spiritual side, that cannot be defined or measured. The conference started with a presentation and workshop by author John Lee, whose recent books include Growing Yourself Back Up, Facing the Fire: Experiencing and Expressing Anger Appropriately, and Courting a Woman’s Soul. He talked about regression, a frequently used psychological term, which he defines as feeling small and powerless, the way the person felt as a child. He sees regression occurring when a person gets in a situation that brings up some underlying rage. The rage is unexpressed anger that had been allowed to build because it wasn’t handled appropriately at the time it first occurred. As a result, it has turned to rage, causing a variety of behaviors that result in the person beginning to regress emotionally until feeling like a “little” person. In a sense, it is negative “emotional growth,” at least on a temporary basis. The conference also featured a video of CEDU founder Mel Wasserman talking about the origins of CEDU and the development of their philosophy of education which became known as emotional growth. The last part of the conference was devoted to more discussions and explanations of the participants’ perspectives about emotional growth. One observation was that the type of student most appropriate for an emotional growth school is the one who has had some early successes in life, but somehow got off track. These early successes give the staff something to work with when helping the student refocus on attaining maturity in the journey towards adulthood. Without those early successes, the prospective student would be considered marginal so far as whether the emotional growth curriculum would be effective. Plans are already in the works for next year’s conference and will be announced once they are finalized. © Copyright 2012 by Woodbury Reports, Inc. |